The majority of BDSM is a dance or a game. Pain is essentially playing with sensation. From a philosophical standpoint. How much pleasure...

Philosophy in the Bedroom, Marquis de Sade The Way of a Man with a Maid, Anonymous Story of O, Pauline Reage These are in no particular...

The partial list of erotic degradation.. 1. Forbid her from entering your home on two legs, she must always drop to all fours and crawl...

Some individuals find erotic pleasure in power exchange dynamics, where a person takes on a Dominant or controlling role, and the other...

Baby… You’ve spun on this planet for over 40 years.. Why do you like being called baby so much? Baby, do you enjoy being pampered?? Cared...

The importance of consent cannot be overstated in the BDSM lifestyle, and it has significant implications for personal relationships,...

The journey of transcendence is a path inward, from the finite to the Infinite. It is a journey of the heart, a quest to go beyond the...

"In the beauty of the world, we find glimpses of the divine. Every form, every face, every moment is a reflection of the beauty of the...

Knife play is essentially sensation play plus fear play. It’s the pointy blade of a sharp knife running on the soft skin of a little...

Bondage is... a gift. Bondage is... settling. Bondage is... soaring. Bondage is... objectification. Bondage is... escape. Bondage is......

Fingers running across all the tender spots. Grabbing at all the places her eyes shy from in the mirror. Tugging on handfuls of hair...

The romance of D/s is built in. What is romance? Electricity. Energy. Attention. Infatuation. Lust. Display. Adoration. Consumption. A...

Knife Play

Meta-Talks, Over Prescribed and Misunderstood. I think there needs to be some elaboration here. Alpha, beta, meta… Alpha = primary =...

My sadism is akin to a child pulling the petals off a rose piece by piece. Walking through a field ripping the flowers out one by one. In...

Is there a submissive personality type? Yes. According to the NPA Theory of Personality what we in the lifestyle refer to as a submissive...

A well-meant warning on engaging in a total power exchange dynamic with a 24/7 Dominant, Master or Owner type top. The total power...

….the lifestyle, is to be a straight shooter. Gentlemen and ladies, Devils and dolls. There is no judgment from me. Lie, cheat, steal,...

Shame. If I had to boil down my one primary sexual kink it would be soaking in my object’s sexual shame. Realistically no one can boil...

Casual Dominance- Take her utensils out of her hand in public to cut up her meat while dining in public. Using your fork to take a bite...