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In Short

I am a BDSM lifestyle proponent, pro Owner/object dynamics, pro TPE, Dominant, white male, writer, sadist, business man, amature artisan, craftsman, etsy shop owner, monogamist, Daddy to my babygirl, father to my kids, adventurer and perpetual learner. 

Old Guard D/s 24/7 TPE...

There is no wrong way to kink, love, engage in BDSM or be in the lifestyle. (As long as it is safe, sane and consensual.) But there is a right and wrong way to Own or be Owned in a Total Power Exchange dynamic. I am a stickler for this because MY home in the spectrum of BDSM/Kink is Owner/object style Dom/sub in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange dynamic. Thus if a submissive in a power exchange and/or a Dominant in a power exchange claim to be Owned/be a Owner, there are clear black and white rules and protocol that apply to those lifestyle choices and titles. In my writing section that is the vantage point I write from. That's the only life for me and I'm fortunate enough to have met a beautiful submissive that affords me the opportunity to live that lifestyle everyday. 

Why A Website...

...and not simply a social media account? I originally choose to make my home in the kink community on tumblr. In 2018 they choose to purge all pronography and thus the kink community. Those that are aware know they failed at their goal. But they did disrupt the community and content creator blogs enough that lots left. I lost a point of connection with my submissive, lost a easy place to communicate with Dominants' I respected and lost my written log of perspective that accompanied my play pics. I might have a presence on another platform such as new tumblr, bdsmlr, fet or some other social media. But I will never use a place policed by someone else as my anchor. I will not allow someone else the opportunity to sensor my perspective or intimate art. 

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